Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Memory is a Funny Thing


Memory is a funny thing.
I remember learning about it in a class once.
Can I remember everything I learned about it?
No.
I remember there were stages.
Little compartments in our brain.
These compartments hold new and old information.
There is only a small amount of information a person can process at a time.
New information stays in short term.
The old; long term.
It takes some time to get to long term.
There are many steps along the way.
There are different ways a person recalls the information stored away in compartments.
People use their senses.

Memory can be skewed.
It can be changed.
People can be made to believe things and forget things.

I have never been very good at remembering specifics.
I wish I could.
I admire people who can.
People who know facts.
People who know an abundant amount of information on a certain subject.
I admire that.
I wish I knew what it was like to have a brain like that.

I remember people.
I don't think other people really care about the people I remember.
I do.
I'm really good at remembering people.
But people don't care what I know about people. 
I remember people I've encountered for a few minutes.
I remember people I spent a few days with.
I remember people I've known for years.
I remember people I've lost touch with.
I remember people I've never even met.

I remember people I've taught.
I remember people who've cut my hair.
I remember people who have served me.
I remember people who've taught me. 
I remember people who've said hi to me on the street.
I remember people who have given me gifts.
I remember people I volunteered with for a few hours.
I remember people who have come into any of my work places.
I remember people I've talked to at a booth.
I remember people who I've served food to.
I remember people I've worked with.
I remember people I've sat next to on the plane.
I remember people who have come to unlock my car.
I remember people I have roomed with.
I remember people I have been on dates with.
I remember people who have walked me home.
I remember people I had class with.
I remember people I've stood in line with.
I remember people who have rung up my items at a store.
I remember people who stand guarding stores.
I remember people who've let me pet their dog.
I remember people who have given me a job.
I remember people I've washed my hands next too.
I remember people who have held the door for me.
I remember people who I've seen publicly speak.
I remember people I randomly meet on the streets, in a store, at a game, at my door, at the park, at the zoo, at a museum, at the theatre, etc.
I remember the people I meet anywhere.

I think we tend to remember things we find important or that we can relate to.
We tend to remember that in which we experience,
that in which we enjoy and that we attach a feeling to.
I think what people remember and know tells a lot about who they are.
It helps a person see what’s important to them, what they value in life and believe.
I used to think I didn’t know hardly anything important. 
I sometimes still do.
Coming to these conclusions though, I think I’m ok with mostly just remembering things about people.
I love people.
I enjoy people.
I enjoy their experiences, their talents, their stories, their dreams, their mistakes and their journey.
I enjoy learning from them.

Some people think I’m a teacher, but I know I’ll always be the student.